I gotta go my own way..
I have my own life to live why should i follow others?
I have read a book names "Pamper yourself"...I found many interesting stories and examples from tis book..
The book is divided into four parts...
I was very impressed in one of the chapters which is discussing "Release your pressure and get your freedom"
Actually all of us know that when you stressed yourself you need to pay more energy and time to achieve your purpose. The thing is when the problem comes ..it's hard to clear our mind! The first thing that we always do is become nervous then defend ..it's the common reaction!
It mention a point about forgiveness too..
Forgiveness is a topic that considered by this society..we are entangled in either forgive or investigate people when something bad happened...Sometimes we are so angry with people who makes us pain..we even want to make them pain as well by doing sth childish (avenged)..but all of us have overlooked a point that this kind of action is hurting ourselves...
Forgiveness is the most graceful thing in the world..if everyone knows how to forgive others ..it must be very peaceful society..Ya ! it's hard especially something very serious..but we do need to learn..when you forgive someone that means you can release yourself from it! If we don't forgive we can't focus on the thing that is more important and more appropriate ..
Just make it ended in this point and let something else begin !
after erased the old sentence then we can write a new one ..
Don't let the thing or the person to control you.
In that paragraph ..there's a sentence very impressed me ..
不愿去原谅别人就像自己喝毒药却希望别人死去!
this is a very strong analogy!
hahaha..
Pamper yourselves starts from forgiveness! haha..I do believe it!
you can feel so peace and comfortable and happy by reminding urself to forgive ..
Let's find the balance!haha
if we can study philosophy..if we learn it from our daily life and dont afraid to understand it..
then we can make ourselves a better person then we can be pampered!
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muackz^^